Boyfriend wanted a threesome with my cousin

Dear Pastor,

I am writing to you with tears in my eyes. I am 22 and I am living with my boyfriend.

We have been living together for two years and everything was going well between us. We do not fuss much. We have our disagreements, but nothing serious. We are living in a one-bedroom apartment but it is not very expensive. We share the rent; it is only $50,000 for this place, but it is very convenient.

My cousin came to Kingston and asked if she could stay with us just for one night; we said it was fine. But the one night was a night of hell. My boyfriend said he would sleep on the floor, but I told him that he did not have to do that, so he slept on the same bed with us. My cousin said that while we were on the bed, we could do a threesome. I told her no way and she said I would like it because she had a threesome with two of her friends and it was time for me to loosen up. My boyfriend told her that if I agreed, anything could happen. I did not agree.

I was anxious for day to break. I got up and made breakfast. I should have gone to work but I refused to go until this girl was ready to leave. I am crying because I respected this girl so much and she came right to where I am living to try and take away my boyfriend. We both come from poor families. I did not expect her, however, to live a very loose life.

My boyfriend told me that he would love to have the experience. Since she left, she called me again and asked me if she can come and spend another night. I told her no. My boyfriend told me I should allow her to come because that wouldn’t mean that she could get him. But I do not believe him because I have no doubt now that he would want to go to bed with her. When she suggested a threesome, he did not object to it. I could never trust this cousin again with my boyfriend.

V.

Dear V.,

Dry your tears, my dear. You did what was right. Your boyfriend disappointed you because he was all for it. Next time your cousin is coming to Kingston to do business, she should stay in a hotel. Don’t let her come near to your apartment or have anything to do with your man.

Pastor